Soooooo guess what?? My boy is willing :D
I'm excited. Usually the anal sex talk goes something like this:
"Can I do you in the a**?"
"Can I do YOU in the a**?"
(actually it's more like, "can I do you...?" "can we do it the right way?" "what's the right way?" and then I explain, then I get a no, so I say no, etc...)
He plays nice with me, so I said yes... and now my interest is piqued over the prospect of bending him over for the same.
I've never used a strap-on before... any suggestions?
I just read Bend Over Your Boyfriend, and it says, "choose one with a slight curve and strap it in so the curve points up, so it'll better stimulate his prostate."
Would this mean to turn the curve so that's it's pointing downward (like a rainbow - arch up, or a frown)? Since he's bent over, and the prostate is anterior, this would make sense... but I want to be sure. Also, I'm assuming any dildo with a standard base could be rotated?
Also, any harness suggestions that won't break the bank?
Be nice, go slow, use lube, and then more lube... am I missing anything?
oh, and if there's a better suited community for this... send it my way.