Allllllrighty, I have a question. If this has already been a post at some point, i'm sorry, didn't know where to look n such.
So, i'm 18 and pretty new to sex, lost my virginity to a guy little over a month ago. But, did have sex with a girl a couple months back. I went down on her...and loved it :]
Now, my boyfriend is 17 and pretty sexually experience compaired to me, has been having sex since he was pretty young, yet he's the only guy i've been with. So, you can assume he's done more things sexually than I; though I think he's more comfortable with me sexually than he was been with girls in the past - more experimentation. Like, sex isn't just something to do like young teens think it as. We seem to be more open n stuff, for instance we just had anal last night - quite fun.
So, he's done stuff blah blah blah...more to my point. He realllly doesn't want to go down on me. He says he's done it twice in the past, but was uhm rather under the influence of things at the time, so yea. He's tried it on me once, licked me about three times...and stopped. Arghhh. I just don't understand. I loveeeee performing oral sex on him. And he says it's not that he doesn't want to, but he says he just thinks it's "not his thing". It just boggles my mind, cause I like girls too, and I like licking vag and the taste is something that i'm quite fine with. I even taste myself all the time and play with him by tying to put my fingers in his mouth after I touch myself and he just really is sklfjslkfjkdl about it. So, i'm pretty set on it's the taste that bothers him. Oh, and sometimes he'll even smell his fingers after touching me, ugh.
It's made me feel self-concious, cause i'm sure, like most vag owners...sometimes there is that worry about taste and smell. But I take care of myself down there and I know it's fine...but just the fact that he wont lick me makes me feel like it's me.
But, as I said, i love giving him bj's and he's been all "oh, you don't have to do that if it upsets you that I won't go down on you". But that's not the point at all, I do that because I want to not because i'm expecting anything. And to be honest, I think one of the most unappealing thigns is when someone does something to you sexually that they don't want to be doing, but stilll.
So VP'ers, what's your input on guys who don't want to lick vag?