I have a little waterproof mirror and used it to watch myself and afterwards, I took a few moments to look at it.
A little background: I've had gender issues since I was about 15 and have always been super self conscious about how it looks since my inner labia are not even.
I found myself, at 20 years old, feeling good about the way it looks. Admiring the smallness, the length, the way the lips were. I'm still ill and still not able to sleep, but I have a little more self-esteem in myself.
Love your bodies and your lilies (one of my words for it), everyone. It's beautiful.