I've recently started seeing someone who loves to pay attention to my nipples - which is great, I love nipple orgasms, except that the attention is protracted enough and rough enough that my nipples are very sore and sensitive afterward. In fact, after I see him, the skin on my nipples usually cracks up/peels/scabs and takes about a week to fully recover. I've tried putting lotion on it, but it doesn't seem to help.
My question is, is there any danger in doing this on a regular basis? Am I doing any kind of damage by allowing this to happen repeatedly? I imagine breastfeeding is at least as rough on the skin there... Is there anything I can do to help the skin heal?