Hey everyone - So, I'm seeing a new guy whom I've yet to sleep with. I've had HPV for a little over a year - not the strain that causes warts, it's a possible cancerous strain. I'm debating whether or not to tell the guy I'm seeing. I'm a very honest person, which is why I think I should, but a part of me is afraid he'll re-act badly because so many men [in my experiences] know so little about the STI. I've also been told by many girl friends that it's not an issue worth telling and that some have even been advised by their doctors that they don't necessarily have to tell their future sexual partners.