Last night my boyfriend and I went to his Christmas party, of which his boss pays for a hotel room for everyone. We made the best of the free hotel room prior to the Christmas party, to say the least. We started having sex without a condom, but once we got "into" it, he put one on. Once he put one on, it did get a little more rough, but not as rough as I've had it before.
When he pulled out, there was blood on the condom - and I thought no big deal, right?
So we finish, I get dressed,, and we go to the Christmas party. Now, imagine you're on your period wearing a pad and you feel the blood pass. That's what I felt. So, I excused myself and went to the bathroom to find my underwear covered in blood like I had a period. I freaked out as I didn't have a pad/tampon with me and wiped it off as best I could and made a makeshift toilet paper "pad" until we went back up to the room. I told him and he quick googled it on his blackberry, but every response we got there was "STI STI STI STI STI!!!" which I know that neither of us have.
We went back up to the room and no further sexual activity happened as to not enhance the bleeding. I woke up this morning and there was only a small spot of blood on my underwear.
Is this "normal"? Is it possible he just tore me? Or...? At first I thought it might be my period coming early, but I am on the pill (LoEstrin 21, if it matters), so I doubt that would happen. There was no cramping / pain.
Thank you guys, you rock :)
Bleeding after sex?