redsredux (redsredux) wrote in vaginapagina,

a couple of sex newbs need some advice

This year, my fiance and I started engaging in PIV sex. We were both virgins at the time (at least, in terms of penetrative sex I guess) but we had a comfortable and lengthy history or manual and oral sex. It's been about two...maybe three months since then, and everything seems to be going fine: we both enjoy it, it doesn't hurt, etc.

But boy howdy, the kid orgasms fast.

I would chock this up to age, but we're both 23, and like I said, we've been sexually involved for some time now. We've tried blow jobs up to an hour beforehand, and it doesn't seem to help much. Once we just put on another condom and kept going, but I could hardly feel anything, and he was already spent, so that didn't work either. He is usually really good about satisfying me beforehand, but other than that, we're at a bit of a loss, and at point we'd both really like for it to last a little longer than the usual 5 minutes.

Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? I tried looking at sex_tips , but I could hardly follow anything that was going on over there.
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