Well, last night, my boyfriend wanted to try again (we don't try that often--maybe once every few months or so) so we did. Somehow, things sort of worked. We were able to have sex, however, I was in A LOT of pain. I had to get him to stop quite frequently and add more lube (I think my birth control pills prevent me from staying wet?) and it just got to a point where we had to stop altogether. But it did indeed work, I suppose.
My question is...how long is it going to take for it to not hurt? Because I am very very sore today and I don't want to go through that every time we have sex. The condom was covered in blood too, and he wasn't even rough. :(