Kristen (xx_socold_xx) wrote in vaginapagina,

Sex hurting?

Over the past 2 years, my boyfriend and I have been having a REALLY hard time when it comes to sex. It was hurting me so badly that he couldn't even get the tip of his penis inside me without me crying. As a result, we never were actually able to have sex. When I went to the gyno, I asked her about it and she said I was physically healthy but just naturally very small so it would probably hurt me a lot the first few times.

Well, last night, my boyfriend wanted to try again (we don't try that often--maybe once every few months or so) so we did. Somehow, things sort of worked. We were able to have sex, however, I was in A LOT of pain. I had to get him to stop quite frequently and add more lube (I think my birth control pills prevent me from staying wet?) and it just got to a point where we had to stop altogether. But it did indeed work, I suppose.

My question long is it going to take for it to not hurt? Because I am very very sore today and I don't want to go through that every time we have sex. The condom was covered in blood too, and he wasn't even rough. :(
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