I'm not sure what questions I should ask. I'm anxious about being able to describe the problem so a male doctor can understand me. I'm afraid he will be dismissive of the problem (I've had trouble getting doctors to take this seriously in the past). I'm afraid if he can't immediately see what's wrong, he'll give up and I'll be back where I started (this happened once before with another gyno). I'm terrified I'll cry in front of him because this whole situation has me so discouraged and ashamed.
Does anyone have experience with this kind of situation? What are the important questions I should be asking him, and what can I do about these other fears?