This is an issue that's been causing me quite a lot of distress.
I'm 18 and am in my first relationship. Both of us want to take it slowly but it has gotten me thinking and worrying about the sex that (hopefully) will happen later in the relationship...
Currently I shave the bikini line and trim the rest of my pubic hair but I still think it looks a horrible mess with the constant stubble/red spots/scraggly hairs etc. and am wracked with nerves about what he will think if he goes anywhere near it (this isn't just for him, it's for me too). Worse are the hairs around the perennial/anal area that I despise and am desperate to get rid of most of all.
I don't really want to get rid of all of my pubic hair, just tidied so the rest can be kept trim and neat. I am considering investing in an Epilator to deal with the troublesome areas of hair, especially those further back. Would this be a better, in any way less painful idea than waxing?
Please please help!