J (_jazzfairy) wrote in vaginapagina,

Need a little advice/insight: painful sex.

What it basically comes down to is this:
I had sex (for the first time in about 10 months) with the man I am currently seeing for the first time last Friday.
It felt good at first, but as he got deeper (i.e. more towards the cervix) it became very painful. In discussion with a friend the next day, she suggested that it may have been because I had only had my period a couple of days earlier. I have just tried to check for myself to see if there is any difference (so that I don't have to find out during sex, again, because it isn't nice for either of us.) & found that it is still painful, a week after my period ended.

It's hard to describe, it's almost tender or feels bruised & it's only painful when pressure is applied. It's also hard to describe it's main location. I would say it feels more painful more towards my right hand side.

- I was not a virgin & this has never happened before.
- There were no problems with lubrication.
- It is not the actual cervix that is painful.

If anyone has any advice or insight to offer before I seek medical help, it would be greatly appreciated.
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