So, some friends of mine are super into the idea of having a Pure Romance (or similar) party. Which is cool...I'm down with that, but I don't know if I could handle a party by that particular brand.
I am so so so not interested in attending a party where there are things including:
* Numbing creams
* Vaginal tighteners
* Sex toys made of undisclosed material
* Sex toys made with phthalates and are not suggested to be used with a condom
Basically, I'd prefer a party where the consultant wasn't pushing materials that are unsafe, or somewhat patriarchal (e.g. vaginal tighteners. No thanks!)
So far, the only companies I have found are Pure Romance, and Passion Parties - both offer creams that I find offensive and unhealthy. Neither lists what material their toys are made of (that I can find). And neither has a section called "Dildos" on their website, which is obviously not an ethical issue, but does make navigating their site rather difficult! Its a sex toy shop, is it so hard to imagine that a person might be looking for a dildo? ;)
So, any ideas VPers? Is it unrealistic of me to expect that ANY company would exist that does not sell these things? I don't think babeland does, but I also don't think they do parties. :(
Edit: I'm located in Central NY State...which is not exactly promising, as far as finding a better party-giver, I know.