I have been with him for over two years now and it has been over 6 months since we have slept together. All the times that we did sleep together it was never any good, or bad things would happen, like he would get soft (which i realize is common, but he would get soft for reasons as such like i was on top and it just didn't feel good for him). He doesn't do oral and pretty much refuses to, which i have dealt with, he is never into trying new things. Another thing was that even though we were on a regular sex schedual he still would only last like ten minutes. Not once did i feel like he was trying to please me, it was always me pleasing him. When we first got together he didnt even like to finger me because he didnt like his hand getting all wet.
So i got to the point where it wasn't even worth getting undressed for. Sex with him was just so awful i have seriously quit wanting to have sex again actually.The stories go on forever, i cant even type all of them up. Am i alone, has anyone else been in my situation? How have you coped with this issue? I need help, I hate feeling like this : (