I read a post a few weeks ago about girls not being able to orgasm from oral sex. The post made me SO relieved…I always felt like it was so weird that oral didn’t do much for me. It would feel good but I’d often just sit there thinking about something else. Anyway, the only ways I’ve been able to get off is actual vaginal sex (generally in missionary) and some kind of weird masturbation I’ve mastered where I cross my legs really tightly. My partner really wants me to get off and, though I’m incredibly appreciative, I don’t really have any ideas. Do any of you have suggestions as to alternative oral/manual stimulation? Or other positions that could stimulate similarly to missionary or intense pressure (though not even sure how crossing legs tightly even stimulates the vaginal area)?
I’m not sure any of that even made sense, so feel free to delete if this is incoherent. And, again, thanks to all of you for your help.