2:47 pm - 07/19/2007

Post-Sex Mess

So, this might sound a little gross (and weird), but im totally confused about it and I'm sure someone might know what the HELL is going on.

I'm on birth control, so my boyfriend and I don't use condoms anymore, so generally when we have sex, he comes inside of me. After he pulls out...it seems like NONE of his semen stayed in my vagina, and its all coming out! Like dripping. And it usually is like this for a good 10-15 minutes after sex. So as you can see, it kind of makes for a messy and embaressing situation.

Has this happened to anyone else?
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nycgal 19th-Jul-2007 07:53 pm (UTC)
All the time, but I usually rush off the bathroom and clean it up before it gets super messy.
sarahcb1208 19th-Jul-2007 07:53 pm (UTC)
Happens every time for me. We have a towel on hand, clean up a bit, both potty and then take a shower together :)
_r0ckintheplaid 19th-Jul-2007 11:36 pm (UTC)
photabulous 19th-Jul-2007 07:55 pm (UTC)
Happens every time. My husband understands and neither of us want "the wet spot" so he has no problem with me rushing off to the bathroom post-sex. Everytime I read in magazines that guys hate that it bugs me because they have no idea what it's like, obviously.
kaelstra 19th-Jul-2007 08:19 pm (UTC)
Oh yeah, very annoying that guys can't usually relate or understand. Their semen isn't magical and doesn't stay put, it comes gushing back out, which generally feels pretty gross, and gets semen all over the place. (Not fun for bedsheets)

Luckily, 9/10 times my partner is rushing into the bathroom himself to clean off, so it's more of a fight for who gets to the bathroom first than anything else. ;)
h2ok 19th-Jul-2007 07:59 pm (UTC)
Yep. It's called gravity. :P
kalaam 19th-Jul-2007 08:04 pm (UTC)
Yep. My bf actually likes it. Like he gets to see his handiwork or something. Who knows what goes on in his head.
ends_and_means 19th-Jul-2007 08:08 pm (UTC)
where else would it go?

also, why is it embarrassing?

i just keep tissues by the bed, then go to the bathroom soon after.
missjecka 19th-Jul-2007 08:11 pm (UTC)
It's impossible for it to all stay up there! Gravity works on everything, including sex fluids of all kinds - lube, semen, your own womanly stuff... it all comes out.

When I was on birth control, I'd go to the batrhoom immediately after having sex. My boyfriend would do the same to clean himself off, and I'd go after to basically sit on the toilet, let everything come out, and wipe myself up. As far as I know, it's kind of a necessity unless you want it to come out all over yourself, your bed, etc.!
xconjuubluelips 19th-Jul-2007 08:13 pm (UTC)
It wouldn't just stay in there y'know hehe. Gravity! Just keep a towel handy.
hoodwink 19th-Jul-2007 08:16 pm (UTC)
I use toilet paper immediately afterwards, so I've never noticed any of it leaking out. but it would come out eventually!
kaelstra 19th-Jul-2007 08:18 pm (UTC)
Yup. Your uterus doesn't suck the semen into it really. The majority of it comes back out, because gravity works.

It's something that surprises a lot of women the first few times they have condom-less sex, because tv and movies make it look like the semen goes in and never comes out.

Some women have leakage for up to two-three days after sex.

About all you can do is go to the bathroom afterwards and bear down a bit to try and push some out, but you can expect some semen leaking for awhile after sex where he orgasms inside you.
brague 19th-Jul-2007 10:15 pm (UTC)
I was very confused the first time and he had to explain it to me, lol. We usually lay a towel down and clean each other off afterwards.
__onthebound 19th-Jul-2007 08:18 pm (UTC)
run to the toilet and hope it doesn't get all over my legs and feet in the process
teknoferit 19th-Jul-2007 08:34 pm (UTC)
Oh yeah, same thing happens to me, and it also seems to continue seeping out for the next day afterwards...
rockstarbob 19th-Jul-2007 08:39 pm (UTC)
I second all the commenters who suggest that a quick trip to the bathroom can be pretty handy. Urinating after sex can help to prevent UTIs anyway. :)
lupie_stardust 19th-Jul-2007 09:05 pm (UTC)
Totally normal. You can get it all out by squeezing, too.
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