1:59 pm - 06/01/2007

External G-Spot Stimulation

So, I've always considered myself down with my cunt and my girly bits and pretty informed about  how I work. I'm all sorts of sex-positive and have a decent amount of experience. But, all of this experience has been with boys and men. PIV sex. Now, I've never really been all that excited about g-spot stimulation. I've done a fair bit of searching around on my own, and have tried all sorts of positions that are supposed to stimulate the g-spot, and it's either just been painful, or just eh. But the other night, I mean holy crap, it's like my eyes have been opened anew.

I had absolutely no idea it was possible to stimulate the g-spot from OUTSIDE the cunt. But ohmygod, this is something everyone should know how to do - for themselves, to teach partners, to use on partners.

Perhaps this is common knowledge if you're queer, and being supposedly Straighty McStraighterson until rather recently, I'm a little new to this all, but seriously - awesome! This is like, my favorite thing I've learned about my body since I found my clit.

Really, that's all I had to say. I needed to share with someone(s) just how exciting my new finding is. And maybe I'm not the only person who has been in the dark. So, go forth and find someone with a nice strong hip to grind with, and let me know how it goes.
lupie_stardust 1st-Jun-2007 06:58 pm (UTC)
!!! How? I must try this!
lysandrea 1st-Jun-2007 07:01 pm (UTC)
onewithbriteyes 1st-Jun-2007 07:06 pm (UTC)
My partner was grinding her hip bone into my pubic area, directly "above" my g-spot. I'm not even sure what else there was to it... combined with some clitoral stimulation I was off like a rocket.

If I place my hands directly above the top of my pubic bone, just below my stomach, and press in and down, I can feel it.
skeas 1st-Jun-2007 07:22 pm (UTC)
Is it very close to your pubic bone? Perhaps I am particularly bony, but it seems like there is just my bone and then my bladder, which, upon being pressured, just makes me want to pee.
onewithbriteyes 1st-Jun-2007 07:58 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I put pressure below my bladder but just barely above my pubic bone. Maybe my anatomy is just a little wonky?
amazinglife 1st-Jun-2007 10:32 pm (UTC)
same here
armscrossed 1st-Jun-2007 07:49 pm (UTC)
"... off like a rocket."

x_hypatia_x 1st-Jun-2007 08:03 pm (UTC)
My partner sometimes deliberately presses down, kind of right above my pelvic bone, to stimulate my g-spot from outside while he's going down on me. I honestly don't think I can do it myself and it's kind of hard to find the right spot even unless I'm already way turned on. But hopefully this will help you.
onewithbriteyes 1st-Jun-2007 08:14 pm (UTC)
lupie_stardust 2nd-Jun-2007 01:58 pm (UTC)
Above your pubic bone...

OH!! Oh, there!! Oh, COOL.
h0rsegurrrl 1st-Jun-2007 08:20 pm (UTC)
LOL @ 'Straighty McStraighterson.' And I most definitely will try this.
sororbabylon !!!1st-Jun-2007 08:50 pm (UTC)
I had a similar experience. My partner was using his hands on me and WHOA! Something started happening!! I mean, I thought I knew mine too! I knew that PIV sex was wonderful and I knew the clitoris was wonderful but this!

He couldn't understand why I was so blown away. :D
iwasadinosaur 1st-Jun-2007 09:08 pm (UTC)
I recently realised I could do that! It's quite fun, haha.
paraxeni 1st-Jun-2007 10:07 pm (UTC)
Yeah, girlsex is pretty awesome! I've been with my girlfriend for two years and we are still finding new things to do, new ways to get off, and we've done the external g-spot thing, though not with hip grinding.

It's fun finding out new stuff your body can do. I remember when I first found out I could give myself g-spot orgasms without touching myself, just by contracting my muscles in a certain way. That was a fun weekend!
sewn_animal 2nd-Jun-2007 01:43 am (UTC)
I thought I discovered a new clit when I first tried anal play, but this sounds like a THIRD clit to discover! excellent. thanks!
latentfunction 2nd-Jun-2007 04:11 am (UTC)
I remember the day I found my g-spot from outside. I spent so much time getting off, I was almost late for work.
lupie_stardust 2nd-Jun-2007 02:05 pm (UTC)
I get the feeling that this is how my day will unfold, too...
quabazaa 3rd-Jun-2007 06:45 am (UTC)
Hmmm I should try and do this deliberately! I know if something is stimulating my gspot from inside I can feel it on the outside with my hand but I've never tried to stimulate from outside!! XD Thanks, sounds like fun!
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