1:05 pm - 05/13/2006

Cervix banging? :( I don't know!

Ugh lord I really have no idea what's going on. I'll try to make it as clear as possible.



A few years ago I had just started having sex with someone who was fairly long in the hose. I noticed that certain times when we had sex, he would be "hitting" something up there and it would hurt like crazy. I looked on a few places and most of them came to the conclusion that he was hitting my cervix and it would be fine if we just changed positions, etc. Since then I've always assumed that he was hitting my cervix.

Cut to the present. Another long-membered partner, another bout of (what I assume is) cervix banging. He's a very curious fellow and every now and then will stick some fingers up there for sheer exploration. He'll feel around.. "oh, there's a knob here" ... "hmm, you like when I touch that squishy part there" etc. Upon one of these explorations he went pretty far up and started touching something. It didn't feel OMFOGOGFOMGOFG YES but it didn't hurt. I asked him to describe what it felt like. He said it felt almost exactly like the head of a penis ("sort of a donut with a little hole in the middle"). Clearly, that has to be my cervix, right? I mean, that's precisely what a cervix looks and feels like: the somewhat harder head of a penis.

So my question here is how come when he touches what is definitely my cervix with his fingers, it doesn't hurt at all, but when he hits what I'm pretty sure is my cervix with his penis, it feels like death? Is he hitting something else with his penis?
lokibat 13th-May-2006 05:17 pm (UTC)
could be the angle, could be the force. i imagine his hand isnt moving with the same thrust power as.. he would be.. thrusting.
eh?

but yes. that is exactly what your cervix feels like.
scien 13th-May-2006 05:48 pm (UTC)
the cervix doesn't (well, shouldn't) hurt to touch, but it does hurt when it gets pushed around too much. You can ask him to prod it less gently and see if it feels the same as when you're having sex - it'll probably be milder, but recognisable.
skeos 13th-May-2006 08:16 pm (UTC)
I am the same exact way. My boyfriend's penis fits my vag perfectly so that it just brushes my cervix in most positions, which I love, but in deeper penetration, he can really start getting it. Banging it with a penis and fingering it are totally two different sensations!
amberbreath 14th-May-2006 04:35 am (UTC)
sounds like the donut thing is a cervix to me! I also get the banging problem (and yes, it hurts like hell). I've never had anyone touch my cervix with their fingers though. I find the banging usually hurts because of rough/hard sex, fast movements etc. Apparently it's also another gspot so the OMFGOMFGYESYES would make sense :)
youaresosmart 14th-May-2006 08:13 am (UTC)
thats your cervix, for sure.

sucks, doesnt it? lol.

the fingers just touch it, his penis HITS it. thats the difference.

i used to have a big problem with it, and even now, i do from time to time, but its like my cervix built up a tolerance...
iadorevintage 14th-May-2006 09:17 am (UTC)
I have the same problem but when it hurts I just tell him, stop and change positions. Is it cervix banging bad for the cervix?
lisbonlovesjacq 14th-May-2006 04:17 pm (UTC)
I don't know, but it sure hurts like it should be. I assume it isn't fantastic for it.
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