2:00 pm - 02/04/2005

vaginal vs.clitoral stimulation

since I've never acheived orgasm through vaginal penetration...
I'm dying to ask..

how does it feel?
how does it differ from a clitoral orgasm, if at all?
teloola 4th-Feb-2005 07:21 pm (UTC)
its a lot different, at least for me. i can only get off vaginally if its rough sex, and only in a couple positions. im going to suggest a position that is my top favorites as far as pleasure goes...

lay on your belly with the guy on your back, like doggy style i guess but you're not on all fours. its sooo friggin fantastic. the only thing i dont like is that we cant see eachother, but that guarantees orgasm for me.

so, good luck :)


and my clit is extremely sensitive, i cant have too much clitoral action or else i start to convulse and its a tad painful.
mommyankee 4th-Feb-2005 07:32 pm (UTC)
thanks for that, I'll try it..
when we do doggystyle I'm usually on all fours. and I'm sooooooo close.
but it never happens!
eclare 5th-Feb-2005 04:53 am (UTC)
You might try (and this is complicated, so try to visuallize) lying on your back, with your knees together and in the air, he's lying on his side with his legs bent around you so that he's coming in from behind, similar angle, but you can hold and kiss each other, too. It's pretty great.
macabredelight 4th-Feb-2005 07:23 pm (UTC)
Oh... It feels soooo much better but I love both. My husband is out of town alot so I have definitely noticed the difference when I use my toys as one of them is non penetration and one is. Sometimes the penetrating one can be kind of a strange need to pee feeling and then sometimes when the toy/husband hits my G stop or whatever it feels really good. Its hard to explain. I really like something going in and out of me when I am having an orgasm. :)
vladazhael 5th-Feb-2005 12:56 am (UTC)
i've had exactly the opposite. the few times i've had true vaginal ones, it was so intense i cried (in a good way).
view_from_here 4th-Feb-2005 09:42 pm (UTC)
I can almost always get a clitoral and vaginal at the same time when my boyfriend is on top of me, missionary like, but not holding himself up, just laying completely on top of me.
devora 4th-Feb-2005 11:01 pm (UTC)
So many people claim to not be able to get off missionary, but I so have. It works when I put my legs over his shoulders and he pounds hard. I love that!
view_from_here 4th-Feb-2005 11:05 pm (UTC)
yes!
silverwitch 5th-Feb-2005 12:15 am (UTC)
I've noticed that I pretty much have to have my legs like that so that my pelvis is tipped upward in order to make it happen. So, yeah. I'm not sure why I shared that, but there you go. :-)
devora 5th-Feb-2005 12:29 am (UTC)
Hey, the more information we share, the better. That's why I love this community. People should have these conversations so that we're not ignorant about our own bodies, the way most women have been throughout history!
silverwitch 5th-Feb-2005 12:30 am (UTC)
You're absolutely right. :-)
leads_to_sex 5th-Feb-2005 09:25 am (UTC)
Reading this is really making me want sex with my boyfriend right now. :)
strand3d 5th-Feb-2005 02:41 am (UTC)
me too. I actually orgasm really quickly with missionary.
brainery 5th-Feb-2005 12:58 am (UTC)
i've found that one position that works well for me is with me on top. after i have his penis inside me, i'll lie down with my legs straight out, so it's like reverse missionary position. somehow putting my legs together like that does something really nice. i'm not 100% sure it's giving me a vaginal rather than clitoral orgasm, but i think it's either that or a combination. in any case, it feels really good.
uhustick 5th-Feb-2005 05:02 pm (UTC)
they feel a lot different. the first time i had sex i had an orgasm from it and i was like 'whoa, what the heck was that?!'

in my opinion, they're much better. but that's just me.

i orgasm really well through putting my ankles/legs on his shoulders when he's ontop. mm...
papillon_bleu 22nd-Mar-2005 04:51 am (UTC)
I'm so backwards! I don't get clitoral orgasms much...only a few times ever in my life...vaginal orgasms come easy for me. Clitoral orgasms don't involve as much of my body, and make me have to pee? I really thought I was going to pee all over a few time. Vaginal orgasms are relaxing, high-inducing, wonderful little (well, actually, most of mine are pretty big!) things.
brizzy_xo clitoral vs vaginal31st-May-2007 06:20 am (UTC)
all of my life, since i was very young, i've experienced clitoral orgasms and i know how to achieve them fairly easily and fairly quickly. as far as vaginal orgasms, i hadn't discovered them until semi-recently. never during sex, but during masturbation, with toys. if i prop up a toy, on the floor or something, and just basically..ride it while stimulating my clitoris, i'll get this strange feeling where i know that in a few more minutes, it'll happen, and i just keep at it and then it does and it's pretty amazing. i shudder a little bit. for a couple seconds, i feel like i can't see, can't breathe, i'm just overwhelmed with awesomeness. afterwards, i'm shakey and weak and i'm very quivery and almost unstable. the two together is amazing, but alone..i think i prefer clitoral, but as i said, it's hard to say because i'm not that familiar with vaginal. i guess it really just varies between women. who else has experienced way more clitoral than vaginal?
cachetona Re: clitoral vs vaginal17th-Jun-2007 07:43 am (UTC)
it is the same for me, as well. I am much more familiar with clitoral stimulation. I haven't really attained a "true" vaginal orgasm in the way I have felt a "bvkjsdvguygvblg" clitoral orgasm. And it's the same - hard to breath, weak and quivery, warm tension, etc.
waxiemoon Re: clitoral vs vaginal25th-Sep-2010 04:22 am (UTC)
I've only experienced clitoral orgasms. I have enjoyed Gspot stimulation, but I have not been able to reach orgasm. My ex-boyfriend used to be able to reach it really well with his finger, and we would spend lots of time seeing if I could reach a vaginal orgasm that way. I would get to a really intense place but never would climax, and eventually would have him stimulate my clit before I went crazy! Recently I bought my first vibrator, and have discovered that I can have my best orgasms with simultaneous vaginal and clitoral simulation. I don't know why; I still can't orgasm without my clit but it's easier/stronger/more intense when there's penetration as well.
moviefan101 Re: clitoral vs vaginal13th-Aug-2011 08:24 pm (UTC)
I understand. I've maybe reached vaginal climax a couple times. It really sucks bc I know that it hurt my boyfriends ego bc I wasn't getting anything out of it. I wish there was a way to learn to switch....
csmoove 14th-Jun-2008 12:24 am (UTC)
Damn it, it really bugs me that I can't have a vaginal orgasm. I can have a clitoral orgasm sort of easily, like i'd have to be in the mood and what not, but vaginal orgasms do not come easily for me at all, i really want one. i've tried so many different positions.

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waxiemoon 25th-Sep-2010 04:24 am (UTC)
Me too! I feel like such a clit nerd.
2breathe 8th-Sep-2009 03:59 pm (UTC)
I've read the comments and find them helpful since I too have never achieved an orgasm through vaginal penetration. My question is..does size matter? Could this be why I never experienced a viginal orgasm?
venusstar5 Size issue?7th-Sep-2011 06:41 pm (UTC)
Responding to 2breathe- I personally suspect that a large size may be helpful in achieving vaginal orgasms. :) Sorry guys. Hee hee. I recently have discovered the difference between vaginal and clitoral... I believe. Vaginal seems very different... very intense and kind of numbing through the whole body. I could tell a difference though in the source of origin... like it is coming from deep inside the body.
Yay for any and all orgasms though!
dagny1213 YAY FOR ORGASMS!!!24th-Oct-2009 04:56 pm (UTC)
For me a vaginal orgasm is not as intense as a clitoral. Don't get me wrong though, they are both just as strong a feeling! Clitoral feels like a sudden release and I can feel my genitals twitching and clenching along with a tingling sensation that runs all over my body. Vaginal however gives me an all over warm feeling and I feel like i'm about to loose control of myself... I feel like my vagina is pushing instead of clenching and I feel like I am gasping for air as well as wanting to scream out in ecstasy! I have also experienced both at the same time which feels most incredible! Anal is also a totally different feeling but I have not had an orgasm from that alone. Also I am disappointed to say that I have yet to experience the feeling of squirting! I would really like to find out if this is even possible for me. I have read about it and it seems like I might be able to because I have felt the "feeling like you have to pee" before but have still not squirted. This is a goal of mine that I would really like to achieve. It sounds like it would be like climbing the ladder of sexual pleasure!
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