3:20 pm - 03/10/2013

nervous sunday

hey all, i was hoping you could calm my nerves about a pregnancy scare. i currently take HBC (microgestin fe 1/20) and use condoms with my boyfriend. additionally, he doesn't ejaculate while wearing the condom and we never have sex without one on.

i've been clumsy with my birth control these past few days due to not being able to get it from PP (school and whatnot.) regardless, we still have used a condom when having sex. i finally was able to pick up my birth control yesterday and took two pills at my regular time (between 11 and 2 at night) to make up for missing thursday and friday's missed pills. i didn't bleed during my placebo week but that's not uncommon with the birth control i'm on.

this afternoon, i vomited out of nowhere. i haven't been drinking nor do i think i have food poisoning. normally i don't worry myself with this but the vomiting is out of the ordinary for me and, being paranoid, i'm nervous about pregnancy. is there a possibility here?

in short
-taking HBC, missed first two days of my active pills on 3/7 and 3/8 but have otherwise been on top of taking them everyday within the same 3 hour window
-use condoms without noticeable defect
-boyfriend doesn't ejaculate while wearing condom
-didn't bleed during withdrawl week but this isn't abnormal for me
-threw up randomly this afternoon for no reason
-a little terrified

please help if you can
kimie_catclaw 10th-Mar-2013 07:30 pm (UTC)
Without ejaculate actually going into the vagina, your chances of pregnancy are basically nil. So even if you weren't on HBC at all, condoms + withdrawal should have you covered. It's much more likely that you have a minor stomach bug or food poisoning than being pregnant.

Of course, if you're really nervous, you can pee on a stick. Dollar Tree (and other dollar store) tests are just as good as the more expensive brands- they're just stripped of the fancy packaging.
cah223 10th-Mar-2013 07:35 pm (UTC)
That is what I was thinking too but hearing it from someone else calms my nerves. Thank you so much.
kimie_catclaw 10th-Mar-2013 07:41 pm (UTC)
No problem. :D

Also, if I'm reading correctly, you did extend your placebo week by a day, so you'll need 7 consecutive active pills to be fully protected again.

Oh! And if you took two pills at once, the extra hormones might have upset your stomach, and that's why you threw up.

stacyinthecity 10th-Mar-2013 09:33 pm (UTC)
Now you've heard it from 2 people. :)

There are some nasty stomach viruses going around. Way more likely that you caught that or ate something that didn't agree with you than you getting pregnant without him ejaculating inside of you.
nonnycat 11th-Mar-2013 01:02 am (UTC)
I'll also add that some brands of hbc made me incredibly sick if I had to take 2 doses because of a missed pill.
katrina_splat 11th-Mar-2013 12:45 am (UTC)
as an idea, get some cheap pregnancy tests and take one as soon as they're able to be relied upon -- I find with my anxiety regarding this I can put it aside until I test and then I have it in black and white -- or several times in black and white. there's nothing wrong with wanting the reassurance of a test and it can save stress (which might delay your period anyway).
tsemed_chemed 11th-Mar-2013 03:49 pm (UTC)
I think your pill/condom usage for the previous pack is more indicative of whether there is a possibility that you're pregnant. If you took all 21 active pills from the last pack, and you use condoms AND withdrawal, it would have to be some serious miracle-fetus stuff going for you to get pregnant. Remember that birth control pills are designed to prevent pregnancy by themselves, so any additional protection you use is icing on the cake.

I do think your doubling up on bcp could be what triggered your stomach upset, but testing could ease your mind if you can afford/have time to buy a pregnancy test.
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