9:09 pm - 03/26/2012

Intense headache/vomiting after S.O. ejaculate inside of me.

Hi, I am worried. I am seeing this guy who I used to see before.

He was the only person I have ever had finish inside of me. When we used condoms it was fine but when we stopped the next morning I would wake up with a terrible headache and eventually vomit multiple times. (I seem to vomit after walking/driving/moving...its almost a dizzy feeling followed by vomit along with the headache.) This headache usually lasts MOST of the next day and I can't do anything.

The rest of my body feels completely normal. There is no change with my vagina what-so-ever. 

I am seeing him again and the exact same thing happened again.

I looked into semen allergies and it seems to say that the vagina is red or swollen. but i have NO changes at all. I don't even have cramping or anything in my stomach.

And oddly enough if I swallow his cum I do not get sick the next day.

I am on birth control and have been on the same kind for years.
Any idea what this is? Ever heard of anything like this before?
I just want to fix it and not have to worry about it anymore.

Thanks everyone for any help/info you may have!
xoxo
hr0nk 27th-Mar-2012 04:39 am (UTC)
Do you two go really hard or rough? Is he bigger than most people?

When you sleep together, do you stay at his house? Maybe it could be his bed?
knittinggoddess 27th-Mar-2012 04:43 am (UTC)
Along those lines, if you use condoms or withdrawal, do you have these issues? Is it possible that you're eating/drinking/partaking differently on the nights you have PIV? I'm thinking hangovers, dehydration, etc. I know that PIV leaves me more dehydrated than when I have other kinds of sex but not PIV.

If you've never had anyone else's ejaculate inside you, it's hard to say whether you're allergic to his semen or not. I know that semen's prostaglandins can cause cramping, but wooziness or vomiting? That seems less familiar.
lachupacabra 27th-Mar-2012 11:57 am (UTC)
or maybe some kind of strange motion sickness?
quinnthevixen 27th-Mar-2012 12:44 pm (UTC)
Do you orgasm during/after PIV sex with him? When does the dizziness usually start?
archangelbeth 27th-Mar-2012 02:38 pm (UTC)
To me, this sounds like a migraine trigger! Migraines can have headache and nausea, as I recall. Some people find that certain foods are triggers for migraines, without necessarily showing allergy signs, so if you're absorbing proteins from the semen -- especially overnight -- and they're things that trigger a migraine...

I'd suggest practicing withdrawal if you don't want to go back to condoms, and find out if he eats anything that causes headaches for you. If he cuts those out of his diet, his semen may become safe for you. Otherwise... He may just naturally have proteins in his semen that trigger your migraines. Possibly anyone would, if you haven't had any other exposure to semen.

You'd need a doctor who specialized in migraines to tell you if there was anything else you could do, probably. Good luck!
dizziedumb 27th-Mar-2012 11:20 pm (UTC)
i work as a nurse on a neurosurgical unit, so i see things like this often. it looks to me like this is more an issue with your brain or inner ear than some kind of allergy. the sex is probably jarring in the way that driving or moving is. it could be, like someone said, a migraine syndrome. i strongly suggest going to your doctor or at least to a walk in clinic the next time you experience this, just to see what they say. it could be as simple as taking a preventative dose of dramamine, or maybe you have a little blockage in your ear.
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