6:51 pm - 11/28/2011

Feeling like peeing during fingering/intercourse.

I'm sure this is a very common concern that girls have during first time sexual experiences, but I've searched the internet and have never really gotten a concrete answer.

When I am being fingered or I'm having sex, I experience this very strong urge to pee. It's strange and a little bit uncomfortable, and often I have to ask him to stop because I feel like I'm going to go to the bathroom right there! It sucks because the first time we were able to properly have sex, I had to stop just for that reason.

Is this feeling normal? And is there a way I can control it. I've only had actual sex a grand total of 3 times.
madraykin 29th-Nov-2011 12:00 am (UTC)
Yes, it is normal, basically your bladder is right next to your vagina and there are certain points (g-spot) where the wall is quite thin so it can feel like you have the urge to pee. Don't worry about it though, it's very unlikely that you will pee, it's just your g-spot being stimulated. If you can ride the sensation out then it's likely that you will achieve a g-spot orgasm.
pixietangerine 29th-Nov-2011 12:05 am (UTC)
Normal! Your bladder is very close by, and G-spot stimulation can make you feel like you have to pee. If you kept going, it's possible you might ejaculate!
franklanguage 29th-Nov-2011 04:59 am (UTC)
Yeah, and I've been accused of peeing when I ejaculated, but the fluid is very different than pee.
dropofmoon117 29th-Nov-2011 06:44 am (UTC)
Do women ejaculate every time they have a G-Spot orgasm?
kasvel 29th-Nov-2011 08:20 am (UTC)
If I can jump in - I don't ejaculate every time I have a g-spot orgasm and neither does my partner.
frolicnaked 30th-Nov-2011 03:32 am (UTC)
It's pretty variable.

For some people, G-spot orgasm and ejaculation is combined most or all of the time.

Some people experience both, but not necessarily together. For instance, I experience G-spot orgasms for G-spot stimulation, but when I ejaculate (which is not often), it's from clitoral stimulation.

And then there are some people who might experience one but not the other, pretty much at all.
gryphonwing 29th-Nov-2011 12:06 am (UTC)
I'll third this - totally normal! Try making sure your bladder is empty before sexyfuntimes, so that you can rest easy knowing there's really no pee in there. Then you can relax into the sensation - for some of us, it's the precursor to an awesome orgasm. :)

descent2madness 29th-Nov-2011 12:17 am (UTC)
lenyberry 29th-Nov-2011 12:48 am (UTC)
rikkitsune 29th-Nov-2011 01:49 am (UTC)

It sounds a bit strange, but over time, your body will likely 'learn the way'. For me, it stopped being the sensation of needing to pee after a while and turned into a very specific type of pleasure.

My partner was so very smug about it, haha!
dkwgdk 29th-Nov-2011 02:01 am (UTC)
Fifthed! Definitely the precursor to an awesome orgasm for me! As I've gotten older, I've become an ejaculator, which is nice and all but can be...uh...messy. You can buy very inexpensive waterproof pads in the drug store -- they're usually $10 to $14 and can be washed and reused. They're designed for folks with incontinence. They're also GREAT for sexytimes. You can pop them under you (or under a towel under you) and they hold tons of liquid so even if you - do - pee, cleanup is very easy. No wet spot on the bed!

I really like Betty Dodson's website for info on female ejaculation -- wwww.dodsonandross.com. I want to be like Betty when I grow up. ;)
firemantis 29th-Nov-2011 08:24 am (UTC)
4th! This person has it down right, I always get that feeling right before I orgasm in a very pleasant way. As for female ejaculation I do that as well, and a lot of people dont know that females can ejaculate- most females dont even know, I had it from my own mother that she was humiliated because she thought she pee'd on a guy once. It's perfectly normal, and quite pleasant. Just take this advice on the bathroom going, and then enjoy yourself...
begintohope 29th-Nov-2011 12:52 am (UTC)
I've found that that feeling has gotten less prevalent the more that I've had sex, probably because my body has adjusted to that kind of stimulation now. But definitely do what others have suggested - pee before sex, so you know you'll be fine, & try to relax into the feeling because there's often something awesome on the other side.
tasha_kitten 29th-Nov-2011 12:52 am (UTC)
When I first started to.... explore... I was freaking out at the pee feeling too. But after I learned more and became more comfortable with my body I found that the feeling was different - subtly. I know know that it means something is going right and something awesome is going to happen soon. :)

I agree with the afore comments - pee before you play and that way you can tell your mind to cut it out, nothing's in there. If it helps, add a towel under you to ease your mind. Relax and enjoy!
slantiness 29th-Nov-2011 02:28 am (UTC)
Haha. I have wondered this but never thought to actually *ask* so it's nice to see all these really positive answers!!

Now boyfriend just needs to come back from the peace corps so we can continue these pleasant times :-(
timesofsplendor 29th-Nov-2011 04:11 am (UTC)
I experience this as well but, I have yet to figure out how to let it progress to an orgasm. The responses here are encouraging!
gryphonwing 29th-Nov-2011 05:12 am (UTC)
Well, for you it might not - orgasms are tricksy beasts, after all. For me, that kind of stimulation isn't enough all by itself - the external bit of my clit needs to be involved pretty nearly all the time. But orgasms involving more than one kind of stimulation feel different. :)
equinoxchick 29th-Nov-2011 12:27 pm (UTC)
first time I had an orgasm (clitoral) I really thought I was about to pee. It's a similar sensation. However I didn't and never have.

lironess 29th-Nov-2011 06:21 pm (UTC)
Always pee right before and right after you do anything in that area.

Once you HAVE peed for sure if you get the sensation you know that you are pretty safe to NOT pee and can get past the feeling but it is pretty normal to feel that for a while because those are the only nerves that you are used to feeling down there up till now.

Also make sure that he washes his hands and his penis before he gets near there..bladder infections are NOT fun...you can also wash each other before in the shower but no soap down there for you just water..
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