7:20 pm - 05/23/2009
Foreskin tearing during sex
I started dating this guy in January, and he's the only guy I've ever been with who was uncut. (Which I quickly found out that I love and much prefer to cut guys.) He told me in the beginning that I had the strongest vaginal muscles he'd ever felt, and has since jokingly referred to it as my "steroid vagina." He really likes it, but it's been causing some trouble. The strip of skin that connects his foreskin to the head of his penis has been tearing when we have sex. It started just a little at first, but progressively got worse. Then we had a really horrible episode where, in the midst of switching positions to doggy style, he put it in and it tore really bad, and started bleeding heavily. He went to the doctor soon after and was told if it gets much worse, he'll have to get cut. Neither of us wants this, obviously, because I really like him the way he is, and he'll be in severe pain for 4-6 weeks. Since the big tear, it hasn't been too bad. The skin didn't heal back together like it had been, and there is a little more give to his skin now. I don't really know what to do. I'm afraid to squeeze my muscles during sex now, but sometimes have a hard time controlling it, like when he's thrusting really deep or when I orgasm. He has also said that he really doesn't want me to stop squeezing, because it feels really good. Has anyone else ever had any experience with this sort of thing? What ended up happening? Is it just a matter of time before he ends up having to get cut, or is there something we can do to prevent the tearing?