9:12 am - 04/20/2008

Shaving the Beaver?

Have any of you ladies (or gentleman) ever been brave enough to let your partner groom you down south? I would like to know your opinion about it and how it made you feel at the time it was happening. I only ask because on Thursday I allowed my FWB to groom my pubic hair for the first time. It's an experience I had been wanting to share with him for a long time. But when the time came to actually begin I was overwhelmed with a serious shyness issue. It amused him because he thought it was cute. But it totally annoyed me. It's not like he hasn't seen me down there plenty of times, right? So why would I have this reaction? After I got over it I found that I really enjoyed the experience and he was so careful not to knick me. We had a lot of fun playing 'hide the sausage' after the shave. But have any of you had similar reactions? It's really bugging me. Thanks.
atalanta0jess 20th-Apr-2008 02:36 pm (UTC)
It seems like its sort of different for someone to be down there looking at your vulva carefully for a kind of long period of time. That could account for the shyness. I mean, when you're having sex (even oral!) he might be down there, but he's focused on touching and being touched. When he was shaving you, I assume he was really looking at the terrain. So it seems like shyness would be a totally natural reaction. :)
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 02:38 pm (UTC)
I did sort of feel like I was at the gyno. When I told him it made him laugh so hard he had to stop for a moment.
masterskasumi 20th-Apr-2008 02:39 pm (UTC)
I shaved my SO and he loved it. He keeps telling me he can't wait for me to do it again.
For me, it was a good feeling that he had that level of trust, to be able to let me at him with a razor.
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 02:41 pm (UTC)
Yes, I found it to be a good test of my trust in him. I was proud of myself for actually going through with it. I would like to shave him next, he's quite fuzzy down there.
youcalledithome 20th-Apr-2008 02:48 pm (UTC)
Me and my partner have never tried this, but he talks about wanting to do it, I know it wouldn't hurt to try but I can completely understand why you felt shy - to me grooming myself down there is a personal thing, something you do with the bathroom door locked, maybe I just don't see it as a sexual thing and he does, I just get visions of me with my leg hoisted up on the side of the bath trying to get the stray ones LMAO! But on the flipside I LOVE to watch my boyfriend have a shave, I think I'd just have a fit of giggles if I let him shave me :)
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 02:51 pm (UTC)
After I got over my shyness about it, I realized what an erotic and personal thing it was to share with him. It may seem like a mundane grooming chore when I do it myself. But when he does it...it takes on a completely different feeling. You wouldn't believe how eager he was to get busy afterwards. I've never seen him so energetic about oral play. Not that I'm complaining....;)
youcalledithome 20th-Apr-2008 03:16 pm (UTC)
I may have to give it a go then ;P hahaha
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 05:44 pm (UTC)
I would highly suggest it.;)
wynter793 20th-Apr-2008 03:45 pm (UTC)
"something you do with the bathroom door locked...me with my leg hoisted up on the side of the bath trying to get the stray ones"

Amen to that! xD lol
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 05:45 pm (UTC)
I lock the door also when I do it myself since that would be an awkward scene to walk in on.:o
pvalov_rings 20th-Apr-2008 03:09 pm (UTC)
I wish I could get my boyfriend to do this, but *he's* the shy one, not me. It took months to get him to even say the word "sex." How did the conversation go when you asked your FWB to do this?

Also.. er.. what is "hide the sausage"?
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 05:43 pm (UTC)
LOL....'hide the sausage' is just a playful term for saying 'lets have sex'. As for letting him know I wanted him to do this, I just asked him one day if he would be interested in grooming me. He was eager to do it, but he gets so busy/distracted with work and being tired that it took several reminders for him to finally get around to it. But once he's set his mind to something he's intent on doing it. So now I have a standing appointment every two weeks for beaver maintenance.
kiteless 20th-Apr-2008 09:39 pm (UTC)
I mostly won't let anyone have a crack at it because I'm not willing to risk a bad shave / razor burn. :D I'd say it was just a new experience to you, and new stuff is sometimes uncomfortable. Also, it's a little different than oral / sex because they are really examining and having a close look. So, again, I don't think it is an illogical or bad reaction. He probably will remember this forevar as one of his best memories. :)
tenchikoi_76 20th-Apr-2008 11:20 pm (UTC)
He used one of those small electric shavers that are just for the bikini area. He did seem highly pleased that I allowed him to do it.
my_neighborhood 21st-Apr-2008 12:22 am (UTC)
Lmao "hide the sausage". Best term ever.

I'd really like to try this, I think it's really cute and could be a very intimate experience. I think might get too nervous that he'd nick me though and I'd keep flinching away.
tenchikoi_76 21st-Apr-2008 12:53 am (UTC)
He used one of those electric bikini area shavers. Perfect for tiny haircuts.
onehundredmoons 21st-Apr-2008 04:27 am (UTC)
I've never tried this, but as I currently have a giant pregnant belly and can't see what I'm doing, it might be a good idea!

(Except he can barely shave his face without giving himself nicks... he'd better be careful down there!)
Marie-Claude Mnard Shaving the Beaver, my behavior14th-Jan-2012 04:03 pm (UTC)
Hello tenchikoi_76,

To answer your curiosity for my part whenever I get a new partner I tell him the following : You either fix it the way you like because I only use it for pee. You are the one playing down there so either you do it like you want or the beautician at the corner will do me the favor of the month. Usually the man likes this because none of them like the same things. Some like a clean shave like a little girl, others prefer a REAL woman with lots of pubic hair. I suggest to you, if you has a lady have no preferences, let your partner choose the way you dress it up.

Good luck with all the hair.
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