6:51 pm - 03/18/2008

Cervix penetration kink.

I was browsing for porn today :-O and I found this um... disturbing video. Read the post title before you decide whether you want to read the description...


Bascially, the girl in the video stretched open her vagina to expose her cervix, and then inserted a long fingernail into the hole in her cervix (is there a term for that?) and started basically fingering the cervix with her fingernail, moaning and groaning all the way like she was getting the best lay of her life.

Is this a kink that people actually um... enjoy? Is cervix penetration supposed to be pleasurable? I was pretty squicked out by it and I was at a loss for why anyone would do such a thing or watch someone else doing it.
redxmagnum 19th-Mar-2008 12:13 am (UTC)
That's the beauty about kinks. They're not really meant to be understood.

I, personally, can't imagine that feels good, but it may be that she gets off on that particular pain.
tintinabulitis 19th-Mar-2008 12:14 am (UTC)
Having my cervix bumped during sex hurts like a bitch so I can't even imagine that.
frolicnaked 19th-Mar-2008 04:44 am (UTC)
Ditto this. Reading the OP's description, my vagina just tensed up in anticipation of pain.
drownophelia 19th-Mar-2008 12:20 am (UTC)
not penetration, but i totally and completely melt over cervix play. my girlfriend can get at this angle, where she's sort of massaging my cervix with one finger, and massaging my gspot with to more, and it feels so amazing i can't even move.
dottedcircles 19th-Mar-2008 12:45 am (UTC)
i love this also! so good.
subbie_bunny to each...19th-Mar-2008 12:21 am (UTC)
their own, ya know?

the opening is called the os, and the short answer is yes, some people do enjoy penetrating it. more common are those who enjoy sexual intercourse that batters or pounds on the cervix. (i myself have a strong preference for hard forceful sex that does just that, though i have no inclination toward having my cervix "fingered...")

you need no worry about trying to understand why some people like that particular thing. sensation and the enjoyment thereof is an extremely individualized thing, and like anything else that is so individualized (like who we find attractive, the kinds of purses we like, the best bedspread, chuck taylors or manolo blahniks, etc.) if you don't get it, you probably won't ever, and the best we can hope for is recognizing that some people find that activity pleasurable and/or fulfiling, and leave it at that.

living in an alternative lifestyle (like i do) i have the opportunity to be exposed fairly regularly to a variety of activities that i might or might not be interested in. and frequently, i discover many activities that some consider commonplace are simply not interesting to me at all, and i just.. can't imagine doing it for the simple pleasure.

i've also found that if you ask enough questions, everyone has something they like that at least ONE other person doesn't "get". me, for example, i just do NOT understand diamond solitaire rings. i never thought they were pretty, and i do not understand spending what i consider to be ridiculous amounts of money on jewelry that (to me) is neither pretty nor desirable. then again, i find great pleasure in anal sex and enemas, but i HATE being tickled, and will punch a tickler if they don't quit when told to...cant' stand pointy toed shoes. don't like chocolate pudding. hate hate HATE crime dramas... but i love old school cartoons, levi's, spanking, and felt tip pens.

everybody has likes and preferences, ay know? this is just one that's less commonly put out there. (mainly because it's squicky for far more folks than two girls kissing is) but honey, just rest assured.. if you can imagine it, somebody has done it. and enjoyed it.. and they probably did it thousands of years ago too.

and yay for porn browsing! *smile!!*

~melly
silent_murmers Re: to each...19th-Mar-2008 06:29 am (UTC)
This response made me giggle...

I think I love you...
fey_bot 19th-Mar-2008 12:30 am (UTC)
...there's a hole in the cervix?
lesson_in_love 19th-Mar-2008 12:41 am (UTC)
that was my same reaction. shows how much we know! xP
ends_and_means 19th-Mar-2008 12:42 am (UTC)
it's where the baby comes out... ever heard how the doctor says, "your cervix is dilated 10 centimeters"?
shakidaisy 19th-Mar-2008 12:46 am (UTC)
Yep! IUDs can be inserted in it to prevent pregnancy. And the cervix must dilate during labor in order for the baby to come out! Neat, huh?
my_neighborhood 19th-Mar-2008 12:52 am (UTC)
Yep. It's doorway from the uterus to the vaginal canal.
slobbergal 19th-Mar-2008 12:31 am (UTC)
Hmm i didn't even realize you could do that. I thought the cervix was too deep to see. Shows what I know.
ends_and_means 19th-Mar-2008 12:42 am (UTC)
it can be just a couple inches in. it moves.
greeklilies 19th-Mar-2008 01:10 am (UTC)
yeah, my roommate had a boyfriend who had a massively large dick, and he actually penetrated her cervix with his penis, and she LOVED it - apparently gave her orgasms after orgasms.

i however want to VOMIT every time my cervix is even touched.
atalanta0jess 19th-Mar-2008 01:44 am (UTC)
Seems like a penis would be too wide to penetrate an undilated cervix....but maybe I don't know squat about it, cause I wouldn't have thought a fingernail could either (without quite a deal of force at least.)
h0rsegurrrl 19th-Mar-2008 01:17 am (UTC)
I've seen that video before and all I could think was, "She is going to get some raging infections!" It isn't really safe to do that because the uterus is a sterile organ. You can get PID from doing that, unless the cervical os (that's the name of the opening) was properly cleaned and everything going in was sterile. And I'm willing to bet a long plastic fingernail is not sterile. It doesn't really hurt terribly; I did it once or twice a long time ago (before I knew that you're really not supposed to do that) and it didn't really do much for me. I've also had an IUD inserted which didn't hurt me either (granted, it does hurt for many people), so it really depends on the individual.

It's a kink (albeit one with not much following), just like anything else. Everyone has their kinks, and we can't really explain why they turn our crank, they just do.
atalanta0jess 19th-Mar-2008 01:44 am (UTC)
That's what I was thinking...that its dangerous!
jeefie 19th-Mar-2008 01:21 am (UTC)
cervixs confuse me! i went for my yearly std health check a few weeks ago and the doctor put the plastic funnel thing in and said my cervix was "hiding" and proceded to push it around as if it didn't hurt like a bitch, forgetting that i am indeed 4 months pregnant too..

But in response to your topic.. i don't imagine that would be very nice.. when i have sex with my boyfriend and he goes to deep i find it quite uncomfortable, painful even.. and a finger-nail? why!
kaz_lynx 19th-Mar-2008 01:46 am (UTC)
My boyfriend is into that for some reason, which is sad for him because I find it gross because of the "UTERUS IS STERILE, DON'T FUCK THAT UP" factor (and even his pretty man-hands aren't 100% sterile).

I like having it rubbed/etc., though. It doesn't make me OMGORGASM, but it feels nice.
vertebrae 19th-Mar-2008 01:44 pm (UTC)
The very idea of this is making me nauseous and lightheaded.

Ahhhhhhhh nooooooo.
pyro19 20th-Mar-2008 03:52 pm (UTC)
Yeah, me too D:
flyboymark A Mans Opinion5th-Jul-2008 10:45 pm (UTC)
Out of curiosity I stumbled on this subject and I too have seen the porn vid that is being discussed. I have had approximately 45 women in my life and all but 7 have complained of painful penetration when making ANY kind of contact with their cervix. I am endowed with 8" which I consider jus' slightly bigger than the average 5.75-6" for most men. Some would actually make me stop or a few of them would never sleep with me again because it hurt them so much. Of the 7 deep penetration did NOT affect, 3 of them I could not penetrate enough to even touch their cervix. The other 4 did NOT like to have their cervix "pounded" on, but they did go nuts sitting on top of me upright and flicking (rubbing)so to speak their cervix back and forth over the end of my penis to make me ejaculate in them. One of the latter four that enjoyed the "flicking" motion was very petite woman 4'11 tall and the only way she could orgasm was through this motion sitting in my lap with her legs around me. She would put undo amounts of pressure on me, orgasm then she would have cramps for a few minutes afterwards. She was only about 4" deep and I could never penetrate her cervix even though she had two kids. It is my understanding from a gynecologist that this would be excruciatingly painful for ANY woman. AND, I always wash myself and hands before touching any woman’s genitalia. Brushing and gargling is a good idea too. The human mouth carries much more disease than genitalia does. I can't immagine why any man would want more than about 6"-7" other than he "feels" he needs some kind of bragging rites. It ain't no good for anything if the women don't like it 'cause its TOO long! I speak from experince........
mikegleo Cervix penetration kink20th-Jul-2008 12:16 am (UTC)
Well guys, Yes! I saw the video but even before then I was fingering my wife's cervix for sometime and she didn't complain at all and my wife likes to complain. However, we do have four children and 3 of the four were natural vaginal births with no medication and a midwife.
Just last evening I did this and she seemed to enjoy it and any hole penetrated turns me on like crazy. When I search of this kink (I thought there had to be more who have discovered this); that is when I ran across the video. I am 38, have been with over 250 women, belong to swingers clubs and have co-managed porn stars and through outragoues parties for vivied video and many others.
There seems to be only one and I have been involved in many, many adult situations and lifestyles and have never seen this before this recent video discovery.
teutonicdragon cervix play25th-Jan-2010 04:25 am (UTC)
I have seen the cervix using a speculum, it is indeed shaped like a penis. As I understand each is differant and some can be more open. Whether it can be penetrated by a man i will not comment, but there are creams like Cervidil, used to dialate the cervix during childbirth. So all in all I would say it is possible, as for pleasure we are all differant. Some men cannot take oral stimulation, as some women cannot take clitoral manipulation. If you can enjoy.
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