12:06 pm - 04/19/2007

Peeing when Orgasming

 Alright so almost EVERY time I orgasm, I pee. Even if I pee before having sex, and even if I don't drink before sex. It is highly embarrassing and a bit disgusting. And it's not like, girl cum. It's pee. Does this happen to anyone else? I don't know if it's a bladder problem or what.


Edit: I DO have bladder problems, I recently had a kidney infection that sprouted from a UTI, and when I first started having sex with my now boyfriend I had a UTI almost every week. I don't know if I just have a weak bladder?
ex_leopardp 19th-Apr-2007 04:18 pm (UTC)
It could just be that your orgasms are so intense that you're losing control.
I used to find that when I had truly intense orgasms, that I would leak.

But are you absolutely sure it's not female ejaculation?

I've worked hard on my kegel exercises and even got a Kegelmaster2000 and I NEVER leak anymore no matter how intense they are.
But I don't ejaculate either:-(

hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 04:23 pm (UTC)
I do have intense ones... but it's not just leaking. It's like full fledged peeing.

I'm sure =( I wish it was haha. That has happened once, but now I just pee. It's so gross.

Maybe I should try the Kegels! What is the Kegelmaster2000?
cecinestpastout 19th-Apr-2007 04:32 pm (UTC)
http://www.kegelmaster2000.com/ - I had no idea either, but I googled and found this.
hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 04:36 pm (UTC)
Holy shit I might need to get one. Maybe I have a dropped bladder =\
cecinestpastout 19th-Apr-2007 04:38 pm (UTC)
I would definitely see a doctor if you think that's the case, but don't rely on a website to tell you. Bear in mind that they want to sell a product, so their medical advice isn't going to be 100% unbiased.

It sounds to me like you just need to do some Kegels, like leopardprints said. Do you find you leak at other times at all?
hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 04:41 pm (UTC)
I probably should see a doctor, you are right.

I don't leak at other times, though I do have to pee A LOT, even when I haven't had much to drink. And this is highly embarassing, but sometimes I find myself almost/ pretty much wetting my bed after having dreams where I am peeing.

It's REALLY embarrassing. I feel like I am 5 again.
archangelbeth 19th-Apr-2007 05:50 pm (UTC)
I don't have the other part, but, er, I've wet the bed once or twice when I was dreaming that I was going to the bathroom. So we can be embarrassed together? *wry*

Good luck!
hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 06:00 pm (UTC)
Haha hurray for teenage bedwetting!

Thank you.
etherealfire 19th-Apr-2007 09:35 pm (UTC)
lol I woke up when I was 16 to my 42 year old mother having to change the sheets >.< She doesn't bladder problems, she just had a dream that she was peeing and, well...
hellohellolover 20th-Apr-2007 02:20 am (UTC)
That's what happens to me haha.
wronske 19th-Apr-2007 11:04 pm (UTC)
it's not just teenagers- i'm 25 and i sometimes have that happen, too! not very often, though. sometimes if i've had a lot of fluids in the evening, and then i have a peeing dream, i'll wake up right at that split second that i start peeing. sometimes i can head it off and clench down before any gets out, sometimes not.
ex_leopardp 19th-Apr-2007 06:42 pm (UTC)
It's a very expensive (like $100) device that works using resistance to build up the pubococcygeal muscles in women. http://www.kegelmaster2000.com/
I swear by it. I LOVE it. I have had five kids and my boyfriend is not very large, but he says I've got the tightest cooter he's ever felt:-)
chaos_unbound 19th-Apr-2007 07:43 pm (UTC)
I'm getting that for myself for my birthday. *is in awe*
ex_leopardp 20th-Apr-2007 05:38 am (UTC)
The thing ROCKS. I use mine almost every day. If I keep it up, I'll be crackin' walnuts with my cooter:-)
wronske 20th-Apr-2007 09:12 pm (UTC)
bah ha ha!! *mental image*
fleshallowances 19th-Apr-2007 04:19 pm (UTC)
It happens to me every once in a while and it sucks. D:
hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 04:24 pm (UTC)
It really does... especially if it happens almost every time D= I'm glad it's not just me though ;)
cloudshapes 19th-Apr-2007 05:21 pm (UTC)
this happened to me all the time when i was first learning to masturbate and have orgasms on my own. after practice i learned to control my muscles and thankfully by the time i was ready for partner sex it was no longer an issue.

i don't know how old you are or how long you have been having orgasms, but it could just be a matter of needing more practice, kegels, and teaching your body learn how to separate the two events. if all of this fails, i would recommend definitely talking to your gyno about it!
cloudshapes 19th-Apr-2007 05:22 pm (UTC)
oops, should be "teaching your body how to separate the two events"
hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 05:26 pm (UTC)
Haha np.
hellohellolover 19th-Apr-2007 05:26 pm (UTC)
It's weird because I started having sex when I was 15 (I'm 17 now) and this never happened with my ex boyfriend. I used to masturbate a little but it never really satisfied me and I don't like doing it at all now =\ so I never really "practiced".

I like your kegel suggestion. I will have to try that. Thank you!
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Sorry Bob, 'sall fixed.
thewaterbaby 19th-Apr-2007 10:53 pm (UTC)
Sounds like female ejaculation to me. It was years before I could do this. Congratulations!

I manage it by putting a towel under me when having sex. In the meantime you can work on trying to control it and recognizing the signs before it happens.

Personally I let it fly. I think it's amazing.
kengwen 23rd-Apr-2007 03:44 am (UTC)
That's what I was thinking, despite the edit otherwise. For the longest time I thought having sex made me have to pee. I'd pee first, we'd have sex, I'd jump up and run to the bathroom to "pee." Course, it's still a little annoying trying to stay put on a pile-o-blankets, but I'm glad to no longer be worrying about peeing the bed.
And, OP, mind if I ask what makes you know it's not girl cum? Girl cum isn't like guy cum - it's watery not thick, volume can be considerably greater, and we can shoot it out pretty far...
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